Perineal massage is a manual technique that helps to physically prepare the tissue “down there” for delivery. It’s a way to help reduce the risk of significant tearing, trauma, or instrumental delivery (using instruments like forceps or a vacuum).
Perineal massage can be a very helpful tool when used properly and at the right time. Some medical providers don’t think there is any benefit to doing it, however, the medical literature does support it as a safe technique when done the right way, at the right times.
The benefits of performing perineal massage are two-fold. First and foremost it helps to physically prep the tissue for vaginal birth. Think about it like stretching a tight hamstring muscle. In order for us to fully straighten out our knee, sometimes we have to work on the flexibility and length of the hamstrings, right? The same principle applies to your pelvic floor, which is the muscles that surround the vagina.
The vaginal canal has to stretch, and those pelvic floor muscles have to get out of the way for that baby to come earthside. Perineal massage helps to actually stretch and soften the muscles so they have some practice, if you will, before the baby comes.
Now, will it stretch our pelvic floors to the amount that they will be stretched with birth? Of course not, but we don’t need to do that in order to reduce our risk of significant tearing or trauma. Sometimes just a little perineal massage, coupled with the right prep work will do the trick.
In my 13+ years of experience I’ve learned that mothers have the best outcomes when they feel prepared, educated, and are able to choose their preferences and have a say in what happens during delivery. Perineal massage is just one important piece of the whole picture of having a better birth.
I recommend people start perineal massage around 32 weeks pregnant as long as:
Some will have to start earlier if there is a history of tearing or pain with penetration or previous scar tissue from surgeries or trauma.
You can do this either way! Sometimes it’s helpful to have a partner perform so that you can focus on relaxing and lengthening the muscles. Some people may not have that luxury, however, and doing it solo is just fine!
If you’re having trouble reaching around that growing belly, you can use tools like a wand or vaginal dilator, or even a vibrator!
If you are more of a visual learner or want to dive deeper, check out my free mini-course, Push Prep Crash Course: How to Save Your Pelvic Floor.
This 6-day mini-course only takes about 5 minutes a day and covers the basics of what your pelvic floor is and how it functions, how to perform perineal massage (with a demonstration), the best positions to push in during delivery, and a ton more!
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